As a 71 year old gigolo who has been very successful on the dating site match.com and other sites I will share with you a sure fire method of finding out if will be attractive to women who inhabit on those meat markets.
It is still all about looks. Just like in high school boys.
Brains and sensitivity and all other attributes are very critical In the rest of your life. But, not on dating sites. If you care about hooking up with hot ladies your face and body is the ticket to ride. Maybe it's been a while since you were in the romance game? You may think that it is different now in this advanced world than it was when you were just a young man. Yes. It is different in many ways.
But, no it is not different when it comes to your appeal. Looks still wins the babes whether you are 7 or 70.
Oh, one exception. If you have a ton of money along with that can make a difference. With enough cash that you should splash in when writing about yourself in your profile let those women know you got a lot of money baby money. Do it subtly. You will start looking beautiful to some.
Otherwise, you are going to be stuck in the wallflower section again. Sorry.
So, the good news is that you can buy your way into a romance. Lavish that great looking sexpot with gifts and fancy dinners immediately. You will succeed.
Or, you can sign up for one of the numerous match making services that cater to men with money. Just be careful because who can easily get hustled by gold diggers. But, you are sharp so play the game. It is all about sex for many.
If you do not know whether you will be a winner on a dating site like match or date than save time and find out. Use my system. It is free. Than, you will know where you stand.
It's very easy to use. I emphasize that success with online dating is all about looks. Shallow and superficial yes. But trust me, I'm right. So, do a test.
This is how it works. You will know how physically appealing you are on match.com or any other dating site very quickly. You get an instant judgement so you don't have to spin your wheels.
Decide on your requirements regarding age, location, financial status of your match.. You can set the search criteria to access only those women you are interested in. Write 25 emails exactly as I have written the sample below.
Then, do the following. Email the 25 ladies all at one time. Don't get fancy, don't try to be witty. Just copy and paste what I have written. It is what I have used effectively forever. You will know if you are going to be a player, a partial player, or a reject.
I'm interested ( in caption line above email box)
"Hi, I like your profile and I like the way you look. Let me know if you are also interested. Yes or no will be fine."
Sincerely, David
Wait about 30 minutes after you have written the emails. Then, you should get some results. Click on the people who have most recently viewed you. Match them to the 25 you emailed. You can navigate all that on the match site. If you see a bunch of women you emailed looked at your profile you will know your fate.
If your inbox is empty or almost empty because no emails came back you are probably going to be a loser on the popular dating sites. Live with it.
If a few responses came back saying they are interested along with some messages you are in business. Than, go to work on who suits your fancy. Many responses come from women who send outdated pictures. Many come from undesirable people for whatever reason. So, meet at Starbucks first. Easy place to use and nit's cheap. If your superstar shows up you will figure out what to do quickly.
If a whole bunch came back with messages indicating a desire to meet you, with some phone numbers included, then you are going to have a great time hustling all those endless ladies out there. Have fun. Go for it. But, start at Starbucks. Don't get sucked in with a hot phone call or message.
If you cannot make a determination after those first emails try another 25 people. If you get no good responses you do not have dating site appeal. Start thinking of paying a service for romantic connections.
Don't be shy. Get yourself out there. Either your looks or your money will work.
Guys, you aren't going to learn anything about yourself you didn't already know. You are just confirming reality. I have done great online. But it never goes fast or easy for me. I am ok looking and have a little money.
Persistence is my answer. It works but it is so slow.
