As a 66 year old expert male player on match.com I will share with you a sure fire method of finding out if you are a player. A player is a good looking guy that easily gets the girls. My formula goes no deeper then it being a system for you ex- jocks who want to know if you still have what it takes to attract women with your looks alone.
It is very easy to use..By the way, it is not for you dreamers who think that what you write in your emails really matters. I repeat. Success with online dating is all about looks. At least it is with the fancy ass women on match and other sites. That is shallow and superficial but trust me. I am right. That is how it works. You will know how physically appealing you are on match.com or any other dating site very quickly. So, try this method and you can evaluate your appeal.You get an instant judgement.
Decide on your requirements regarding age, location, financial status.
You can set the match program to access only those women you are interested in. Write 25 emails exactly as I have written the sample below.
Then, do the following. Email the 25 ladies all at one time. Don't get fancy, don't try to be witty. Just copy and paste what I have written. It is what I have used effectively forever. You will know if you are going to be a player, a partial player, or a reject..
I'm interested ( in caption line above email box)
"Hi, I like your profile and I like the way you look. Let me know if you are also interested. Yes or no will be fine" Sincerely,
David
Wait about 30 minutes after you have written the emails. Then, you get the results. Click on the people who have most recently viewed you. Match them to the 25 you emailed. You can navigate all that on the match site. If you see a bunch of women you emailed looked at your profile you will know your fate.
If your inbox is empty or almost empty because no emails came back from people you emailed you are probably going to be a loser on dating sites. Live with it.
If a few responses came back saying they are interested along with some messages and questions included and maybe an offer of a phone number you have a future. Work it.
If a whole bunch came back with messages indicating a desire to meet you, with some phone numbers included, then you are going to have a great time hustling all those endless ladies out there. Go for it..
If you cannot make a determination after those first emails try another 25 people. If you get no responses again or very few with no offers of phone numbers or messages then you don't have the looks to be an instant player.
You are in for a long grind.
Don't give up though. Even the blind squirrel finds the nut once in a while. Keep emailing but use writing skills also because your looks alone won't do it. Go for their hearts.
Guys, you aren't going to learn anything about yourself you didn't already know. You are just confirming reality.
I ain't nothing to look at but I have done great online. But it never goes fast or easy for me.
Persistence is my answer. It works but it is so slow
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